Some people who have a penis feel they don’t meet “the standard” or are insecure about whether they ”measure up” to other penis owners. According to a study cited in Men’s Health magazine, BJU International found that 63% of men complained their penis did not meet the mark on the measuring stick, but none of them were smaller than normal. The numbers vary from study to study, but most penis size research findings have found their participants to be on average, between 4.5-5.5 inches when erect.
Many penis owners make a mistake by comparing their penises to others when they are flaccid (like in a locker room). This could definitely give someone a complex. Let’s clear something up. Many men who are small when flaccid grow a lot when erect (grow-ers). Those who are larger when flaccid grow less when erect (show-ers). Whether someone is a “show-er” or a “grow-er,” in the end it does not make a difference when it comes to satisfying a partner. Having a large penis does not make someone more masculine or “the man,” it just means they have larger male parts. When someone is into you, it’s not just for your genitals, it’s for the more important qualities (like your butt…just kidding).
But seriously, if someone makes you feel like you don’t meet their ideal body dimensions, you should find a new partner who thinks your body is irresistible. On the other hand, if you’re the one giving yourself a hard time then cut yourself some slack. Your male parts are perfect just the way they are so embrace them (literally or figuratively) and your partner will be drawn to your new self-confidence.