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10 Things You May Not Know About Orgasm


Posted on September 24, 2012 by

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One of the many great aspects of my job is how people in my life send me links to fascinating information on all things sexual. One of my daughters recently connected me to a webcast discussing 10 things you may not know about orgasms. Shortly after that, a coworker sent a link on the related topic of breast orgasms. WOW! How could I resist writing about them both?

According to Mary Roach and her extensive research, here are the 10 things you may not know:

1. Thanks to the use of ultrasound, we can now view what appears to be a fetus masturbating. I know males are often identified by their prominent erections, but who knew they put them to use so long before puberty? Since all the nerve endings needed for sexual pleasure are there at birth, it’s not surprising babies find pleasure in touching their genitals, but even before birth? Yikes!

2. Some people don’t need genital stimulation to reach orgasm. There have been reports of people stimulated to orgasm through stroking of the eyebrows, teeth brushing, music, breast stimulation or pretty much anyplace on the body. Someone claims to be able to THINK herself to orgasm!

3. At least in theory, you can have one when dead. I’m not talking pretending you’re asleep, but actually dead. There is a sacral nerve that when stimulated post-mortem causes a physical reaction called the Lazarus reflex. Apparently, with proper manipulation an orgasm can occur, as well.

4. Orgasm can cause bad breath.

5. Orgasm can cure hiccups.

6. Before Masters and Johnson proved differently in 1950, some medical professionals prescribed orgasm to increase fertility. It was believed the orgasm “sucked up” the sperm into the uterus.

7. Some pig farmers still believe that proper stimulation will increase litter rates by 6% when the sow is aroused before artificial insemination. Here is an actual video of a farmer demonstrating this during the webcast that is something you should watch before attempting this at home. Most educational.

8. Female animals may enjoy themselves more than you think. Most animals don’t show expressions of pain or pleasure on their faces. They are more likely to use body postures or ear placement to express their true feelings.

9. Studying human orgasms is not easy. Just creating an instrument to measure such sensations, let alone finding willing research subjects, is challenging.

10. But apparently, there are always some willing to show it all for science. In 1940 Alfred Kinsey had 300 male subjects ejaculate and marked with tape on the floor the length their semen traveled. The record is 8 feet.

Hope you increased your orgasmic knowledge. I certainly did!

The Sound of Your Orgasm – Female Copulatory Vocalization


Posted on April 24, 2012 by

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Sound of orgasmMost heterosexual couples recognize the many differences in the way males and females process emotions, communicate, solve problems, and generally view the world. We tend to think of males as more aggressive, physical and loud. Think of a group of male sports fans revved up over the final moments of a very close game. Few demure gestures, whispered comments or shy responses in this group. So where is the one area where women vastly out-vocalize men? During sex, particularly while having an orgasm.

While men typically orgasm with a bit of heavy breathing, a few grunts and the deed is done, women tend to vocalize with increasing volume, often climaxing with operatic proportions. The ancient Indian text of how to make love, The Kama Sutra, gives this advice, “As a major part of moaning, she may use, according to her imagination, the cries of the dove, cuckoo, green pigeon, parrot, bee, nightingale, goose, duck and partridge.”

Human females are not alone in the primate world when it comes to expressing their pleasure in a vocal cascade of sounds. Female non-human primates make sounds that they reserve only for mating. It is believed that this behavior is a call to males to come take advantage of her willingness to mate during the time she is ovulating. The closer she is to ovulation, the more complicated and intense the sounds.

To view one of the most well known, very vocal, fake orgasms, visit this YouTube video to view Meg Ryan giving it her all in When Harry Met Sally.

Bullets, Batteries, and Orgasms, OoOoh My!


Posted on February 15, 2012 by

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I’m a huge proponent of sex toys, as they can help you learn your own body, don’t require a willing participant, and can make you C-O-M-E!! I think there aren’t enough women willing to plunge into the arena of toys, as they’ve been tabooed as vulgar or unladylike. I could give a damn about being ladylike, pass me the freakin’ orgasms!!

Our team on Tumblr asked for your favorite toys and I’ve picked 6 show-stoppers to review below:

Toy: We-Vibe

Description: This toy was created for couples or solo play, is made of flexible medical grade silicone, is shaped like a “U,” has bullets at each end to stimulate clitoris and G-spot, and has three vibration settings.

Ooh La La Reviews:
● Enhances already great sex life
● Is comfortable size for both hitting clit and G-spot
● Made to accommodate penis and toy at the same time
● We-Vibe III has remote control
● Gives powerful orgasms
● Male partner claims he did not feel inferior to toy (good news if you or your partner are sensitive to “toy envy”)

Ooh no no reviews:
● Often slips out of place
● Has to charge for 24 hours before use
● Vibration is not strong enough
● Toy not big enough/small enough/flexible enough

OoOoH-verall: Overall you’ll love it or hate it. From what I can gather, those who hated it had high expectations and when they weren’t quickly met, they gave up. Positive reviews seemed to come from couples who kept using the toy until they found the right “vibe.”

OoOorder up!  Get it for $89.99 here 

 

Toy: Fleshlight

Description: Tube shaped toy made to imitate vaginal, oral, or anal opening and canal or throat, made of patented super soft “realistic” material, for penis penetration.

Ooh La La  Reviews:

● Best male masturbation device
● Very life-like
● Can induce powerful orgasms
● Warming toy with water before use makes for more pleasurable experience
● Ability to control “tightness” of “vaginal canal” was a commonly cited plus
● Kinky options like vampire mouths available

Ooh no no reviews:

Some reviews cited tearing of the “vulva” and canal. Some reviews claim counterfeit toys are marketed as the “Fleshlight,” so be careful where you purchase from.

OoOoH-verall: The vast majority of reviewers found the toy to be as close to vaginal penetration as possible. A screwable cap at the bottom of the shaft or “canal” can be adjusted to make the toy “tighter” or “looser.”

OoOorder up!  Get it for $50.99 here

Toy: Hitachi magic wand

Description: Hand held clitoral vibrator, looks the shape of microphone, plugs into wall (it’s that powerful).

Ooh La La Reviews:
● Does the trick!
● Comfortable to hold
● Appearance looks less like a “sex toy” and more like a regular body massager

Ooh no no reviews:
Some reviewers reported that the intensity of the massager made they feel less able to orgasm without it. Some suggest abstaining for a few days from using it, and you will feel “good as new” again.

OoOoH-verall: If you’re looking for clitoral stimulation, the magic wand should do the trick. Multiple vibration settings make it ideal for different sensitivities. Attachments can be added to the device also!

OoOorder up!  Get it for $47.95 here 

Toy: Wild G Stimulator (“Rabbit”)

Description: Works just like the “rabbit” but cheaper! California Exotics brand, with a “fin” instead of rabbit head to stimulate clit, and a shaft with rotating beads to engage your G spot. Three speeds of vibration, made of silicone, waterproof.

 

Ooh La La Reviews:
● G-spot orgasms
● Clitoral orgasms
● Clit-G combo orgasms

Ooh no no reviews:
Some reviewers felt the shaft was larger than expected. I actually felt the same way when I received it in the mail. With a little silicone lube it went in without a hitch.

OoOoH-verall: My favorite toy!! This toy was the first object to ever give me orgasms within my vaginal canal. I’m telling you, it revolutionized my lust life!!

OoOorder up!  Get it for $34.66 here 

Toy: Don Wand Glass Pleasure Wand

Description: Glass dildo with “nubs” around it for added stimulation. Comes in beautiful rainbow colors.

Ooh La La Reviews:
● Reviewers liked the size of the toy
● Kudos for the added “nubs”
● Heating and cooling options are a must
● The most aesthetically pleasing toy

Ooh no no reviews:
The toy is made of glass – meaning it does not bend, and is super-hard. If you prefer soft or flexible, this might not be for you.

OoOoH-verall: If you are a fan of hard vaginal stimulation, this toy can be the one for you. Lube is necessary. Easy to wash, can be heated up or put in freezer for different sensations. Clean up is super easy, you can even throw it in the dishwasher!

OoOorder up!  Get it for $23.75 here 

Toy: Turbo 8 Bullet

Description: Eight speed “bullet” shaped vibrator with attached remote control for easy speed adjustment. Can be purchased with either one or two bullets, depending on model.

Ooh La La Reviews:
● Really enjoy speed and pulse options
● Remote control makes it comfortable for use
● Very powerful clitoral stimulator

Ooh no no reviews:
● Cord from bullet to remote can get in the way if used with partner
● Devices burn out easily if rechargable batteries are used
● Different models make different vibration frequencies, bought similar products but their pulse was more of a “buzzing” – which felt more like a bee-sting than the smooth low and deep pulse of the original

OoOoH-verall: This is the mother of bullet toys. Eight speeds with different pulse options create an array of stimulation options. Bullet has soft removable caps with “tickle” bumps for added stimulation. Great for the novice to the expert.

OoOorder up!  Get it for $12.99 here 

In conclusion, always remember that sharing toys can spread sexually transmitted infections, so if you share toys, use them with condoms. Always wash your toys before and after use, and store in cool dry place. Most toys that require batteries suggest you remove them between uses to prevent the toy motors from burning out.