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“Don’t Be That Guy”: Ad Campaign Gets Consent Right


Posted on December 18, 2012 by

Most anti-rape discussion frames the rape prevention as the victim’s responsibility. We’ve all heard that we’re not supposed to walk alone at night, not drink too much, don’t wear this or that, etc. It’s long been a feminist complaint that rape prevention needs to be taught to the potential perpetrators. Teaching the necessity of consent, and for that matter, what consent is, is an important step in stopping sexual assault. One recent campaign does a great job representing this: Don’t Be That Guy. Canadian organization Battered Women’s Support Services is using these ads to spread their “The Violence Stops Here” message. It makes it clear that “sex without consent = sexual assault”, and even has ads that make it clear men can be rape victims, too.

The campaign conveys the belief that consent is an active thing that must be continually given, not merely the absence of a no. “Enthusiastic consent” is a term many feminists use to describe what proper consent looks like. As in, if you are with a person who says things like “I’m not sure,” is hesitant, disengaged, or seems too inebriated to make their wishes clear, you have not adequately obtained consent and should stop. Once enthusiastic consent becomes the standard for sexual activity, it is no longer possible to dismiss rape of women who were drunk, who didn’t fight back hard enough (by someone’s standards), or any other thing society often uses to dismiss sexual assault. Most importantly, enthusiastic consent places the responsibility on us all to obtain consent, not on our partners to say no enough times or in the right way.

Because sexual assault has been framed for so long in our society as something that the victim is responsible for, it’s going to take more than one campaign to change the standard of consent. But this campaign is an excellent start.

Sporting Sexism: Gender Injustice at the Olympic Games


Posted on August 7, 2012 by

Women Ski Jumpers

Today’s Guest Post comes from a member of our affiliate interested in gender studies.

The glorious feats of human athleticism on display during the Olympic games can be a fantastic break from some of the more mundane routines of our everyday life. The games give people something to look forward to, something worthwhile to train for, and something that coworkers, friends, and family can talk about together. But if you are paying close attention, the Olympic Games can also serve as an ideal nexus for viewing and discussing many of the intersectionalities of asymmetric power relationships that pervade American society.

To me, the argument is simple: if you are the best at an internationally recognized sport, you should be allowed to compete in the event regardless of how you are categorized regarding gender, sex, sexual orientation or religious affiliations, and you should receive equal media coverage for equal success. Isn’t that what the Olympic Games should be about? Pitting the best athletes against each other and equally lauding their prowess?

Unfortunately, this is not always the case. There are a lot of examples from the Olympics which demonstrate the contrary. Not only are women and intersex individuals relegated to a lesser status regarding their physical acumen, there are a barrage of mitigating factors which serve to dissuade these individuals from taking part in sports all together.

While the Olympic Games are absolutely stunning, we should not lose sight of the fact that we are viewing the games through the framework provided by NBC, the company which serves as distributor and gatekeeper for a majority of the content Americans receive regarding the games. Since the data for this year’s games hasn’t been released yet, we can look to the 2010 games for more insight to avoid overt editorialization. An analysis of NBC’s prime time coverage of the 2010 Winter Olympics found that men were far more likely to be promoted and advanced than women athletes. The study ‘What’s The Gendered Story? Vancouver’s Prime Time Olympic Glory on NBC’ goes on to argue that, “(a) when excluding mixed-gendered pair competitions, men received more than three-fifths of the remaining airtime, (b) 75% of the most-mentioned athletes were men, and (c) sportscasters again employed dialogue differences in key areas including that men were more likely than women to be portrayed as succeeding because of their experience, while women were more likely than men to be depicted as succeeding because of courage and failing because they lacked commitment.” Not only was the amount of airtime vastly different depending on the athlete’s gender, the cultural narrative presented by NBC was vastly different as well. NBC is given the honor of presenting excellent athletes, and they do so in a way that overlooks the accomplishments of women.

Not only are these asymmetric power relations reproduced via the media; sexually discriminatory practices are built within the Olympic Games themselves. A poignant example of this sort of discrimination in practice was seen during the qualifications for short hill ski jumping in 2010. Even though the Olympics finally outlawed mandatory sex-testing of athletes for the 2000 Olympic Games (opting instead for “suspicion based testing”), Lindsey Van, the vagina-owning-individual who held the world record for short hill ski jumping, was not allowed to compete. In defense, President of the International Olympic Committee Jacques Rogge stated that the decision “was made strictly on a technical basis, and absolutely not on gender grounds.” The world record holder for short hill ski jumping was denied access to the Olympic Games because of her gender, based on the “technicality” that there weren’t enough other women competitors in that event. Even though Lindsay held the world record, beating both men and women.

A group of athletes sued the Vancouver Organizing Committee and the Canadian Supreme Court ruled that this exclusion was illegal gender discrimination. Unfortunately, the court had no authority over the International Olympic Committee. The only way Lindsay could compete would be is she underwent a two-year-long medical procedure to change her gender and then provided the appropriate government documents proving that she had changed her gender. She declined the change and lost her record in 2010. Fortunately, because of the press coverage she was able to procure for this injustice, women’s short hill ski jumping will be an event for the 2014 Winter Games.

For a plethora of reasons, the Olympics can be a much-needed release from everyday life for a large cross-section of Americans. But there are a lot of regressive elements that manifest during these events, and if we are to hold these institutions in such high regard as a society, we must act with due diligence to correct these injustices.

(For more information, please see What’s The Gendered Story? Vancouver’s Prime Time Olympic Glory on NBC in the Journal of Broadcasting & Electronic Media Volume 56, Issue 2, 2012, by James R. Angelini, Paul J. MacArthur & Andrew C. Billings.)

Body Hair: What’s All the Fuss About?


Posted on June 4, 2012 by

Today’s guest post is from “Erin” who is a graduating student of Women’s and Gender Studies at a local university. She specializes in sexuality as it relates to gender and her main focus is reproductive rights history.

Body hair is an interesting phenomenon. Women are supposed to be free of any hair and men can have as much as they like, right? Wrong. Like other gender binary differences, body hair practices are culturally learned behaviors.

The norms of a hairless beauty ideal have changed over time and between cultures. According to “The Hairless Ideal: Women and Their Body Hair” by Susan A. Basow from the Psychology of Women Quarterly Journal, women did not start removing body hair until about 1915. Before this time the clothing styles did not publicly reveal legs or underarms, so hair removal wasn’t necessary. Around 1915 we started seeing advertisements targeting women to shave their underarms. The ads tended to be instructional and tried to persuade women to purchase the hair removal product, usually a razor, because hair not growing on the head was viewed as “superfluous,” “unwanted,” “ugly” and “unfashionable.”

This is a classic example of the media and advertising industries targeting women’s insecurities, or rather creating insecurities for women to have, in order to sell their products. We see this in modern advertising campaigns all the time. Jean Kilbourne does an awesome job of illustrating the dangers of advertising on women in her documentary Killing Us Softly 4.

The wording used in the ads for razors in the 1910s was very deliberate. While men “shaved,” women “smoothed.” Presenting women as delicate and fragile, while presenting men as burly and strong. Now, it is an important side note that these ads only targeted white women as the ideal beauty. Racism was alive and well and continues to be. Just check out this post about a modern ad and colorism.

As we move into the 1940s, advertisers started to target women’s leg hair for removal. This comes from changing styles of clothing that begin to show more of the leg. Also, before this time, even saying the word “leg” was pretty risqué. This time also coincided with nylon shortages due to WWII. All these factors contributed to the rise in a hairless leg ideal.

All this is to say that it is important to recognize the history of where our cultural practices come from. Body hair removal stems from an industry that aims to make a profit from the insecurities of women. There is a double standard between men and women, which brings this topic into the realm of sexism. The double standard is that men are encouraged to present hairier bodies, while women are socially punished for the same. On a more personal level, if you decide to shave your body hair because it makes you feel better, by all means do so. Just keep in mind why you are doing it. I personally decided to forgo body hair removal because I wanted to rebel against the traditional notions of beauty in our culture. And, quite frankly, it has been liberating! I am more confident about my body image than ever before in my life. Now, I still reach for the razor in my morning routine out of habit until I realize that I decided to stop. Old habits die hard, I guess.

This all goes for pubic hair, too. For more on that check out last week’s post To Shave or Not To Shave for tips on how to shave down there if you decide that’s your thing.

 

This Week In: Politics and My Increasing Frustration


Posted on March 6, 2012 by

No, I’m not actually an anarchist. And I’ll probably end up voting for Obama again, just to avoid having a president who will take away our birth control and make safe abortions illegal. But sometimes I look at our political system and the culture in which we must struggle for our rights and our health and just think … damn.

• So March is Women’s History Month and the Obama administration issued a Proclamation about it. I read through it, finding “promoting workplace flexibility, striving to bring more women into math and science professions, and fighting for equal pay for equal work,” OK; “combating violence against women,” OK;  “equal role in peace-building” OK … wait a minute. No mention of reproductive health? Birth control? Abortion? Any mention of the issues all over the headlines every day recently? At my most generous, that’s … an odd oversight. Cynical me thinks that this is a meaningless proclamation designed to be as inoffensive as possible to avoid any controversy (which, to Democrats, means making Republicans mad). Do women’s reproductive health choices only matter when the administration is trying to pass a healthcare bill? I hope not.  I was also bothered by this phrase: “While we have made great strides toward equality, we cannot rest until our mothers, sisters, and daughters assume their rightful place as full participants in a secure, prosperous, and just society.”  Um, this nation has many women citizens fully capable of working towards equality – why is that phrased like the country is full of dudes who just happen to be related to women? Perhaps it was phrased that way because most of his administration is made up of men…oh snap.

• So, not only were women not included in the Congress panel on contraception, but the one woman who was invited (by the Democrats, of course) was not allowed to speak because her name was allegedly submitted too late … sure. Sandra Fluke, a Georgetown University law student, came to testify about the importance of birth control to women’s health and success. Even though she wasn’t even allowed to speak, she has still been subjected to media harassment. She’s been called a slut and a prostitute for admitting to needing birth control just like millions of American women. I’m not linking to a page because, frankly, I don’t want to give a certain someone more media attention, but Google if you must. But, in case you were under the impression that conservatives don’t think you’re a whore for being a sexual human being who uses contraception, sorry.

If you’d like to support Sandra Fluke, you can reach her on Twitter @sandrafluke. Have you guys been keeping up on the birth control stuff in the news? What are your thoughts?

Condoms and Sexual Negotiations: What You Want Matters, But How Do You Get It?


Posted on January 11, 2012 by

I have a good friend who is one of the most strongly feminist women that I know. She was part of the feminist group on her campus, helped put on The Vagina Monologues, runs a very popular feminist blog, promotes safe sex and gender equality every chance she gets, and is basically a notorious all-around activist loudmouth. She has that pure drive that few people have. A while back, I got a panicked message from her because she had finally lost her virginity, and was now worried about her health.

Being educated about safe sex, she had planned ahead and brought condoms and insisted the guy use them, but when he vehemently protested and then outright refused, she gave in. Now, she was worried about pregnancy and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).  This story broke my heart, because even one of the strongest girls I know was pressured into potentially sacrificing her health so that her partner could avoid wearing a condom.

I see this over and over again. One woman who was paying hundreds of dollars for a birth control method she could get for free in her home state if she only waited one month paid out of pocket anyway because her boyfriend refused to use condoms and she was terrified of getting pregnant. “He doesn’t like them,” she told me. Another woman had a high risk for stroke on pills containing estrogen due to her high blood pressure and migraines but was desperate for us to prescribe them to her because she hated her progestin-only pills.  Her boyfriend wouldn’t use a condom because he told her “it was against his religion.”

Now, I know that sex takes two and I don’t want to portray this as a story of poor women being coerced by evil men. Women want to have sex just as badly as men do and if condom usage does not seem like an option, many people will choose risky sex over no sex. However, I truly think that men’s sexual pleasure is held at a higher priority than women’s bodies and desires and I want this to change.  It is vitally important that women protect their health and understand that their boundaries and requests for safe sex are important and should be respected.

So, if you’re sexually active and know that you prefer to use condoms, whether for birth control purposes or just to avoid STIs, here are some tips that I hope will empower you to control your sexual destiny:

  1. Carry condoms with you.  Planning ahead doesn’t make you presumptuous or promiscuous. You can’t use them if no one has them!
  2. Don’t be afraid to be firm. Women are taught to be polite and it’s hard for us sometimes to stand up for ourselves.  It’s okay to tell someone there will be no sex without a condom.  Most people, given the choice between sex with a condom and no sex, will choose sex with a condom. I don’t want to propagate the notion that it’s easy for women to turn down sex because we want it less than men do anyway; turning down sex you want because you don’t have a condom or they won’t use one really sucks. But like I said, a lot of people will agree if you insist and if not, at least you don’t have an STD or pregnancy scare.
  3. Female condoms, female condoms, female condoms!  If they don’t want to use a condom, you can use one yourself.  They even have extra benefits; they cover the vulva so you have more protection against viruses like HPV and herpes.  They can also be used for anal sex.

Remember, you have the right to state what you want during sex and stick with it. Also, if your partner consistently protests at wearing condoms if you want them to, ask yourself some questions about the safety of your relationship.  Putting your body at risk for pregnancy and infection is a big red flag.

Have any of you ever been in a situation where a partner refused to wear a condom when you wanted them to?  What did you do?

This Week In: Sexism


Posted on January 5, 2012 by

● My new favorite blog Skepchick writes about what happens when a teenage girl posts a headshot of her holding a Carl Sagan book on an Atheist forum. Spoilers: Rape jokes, misogyny, then some more rape jokes. Why is this significant? Because too often this type of behavior is assumed to be the realm of the openly hateful–maybe the super right-wing, or the fanatically-religious, or the men’s rights activists, or the frat jocks–but sometimes we forget that even the supposedly liberal spaces can be hostile and dangerous for women. Things like this serve to remind us that there is still a lot of work to do.

● The Lego Company is releasing a new line for girls…for some reason. Why it’s assumed girls can’t just play with regular Legos, I don’t know. To the surprise of no one, the girls’ Legos will have less boxy, more lithe and shapely figurines, and feature pastel sets with lots of pink. I’m no longer surprised by marketing that is divided into a male/female dichotomy, nor am I surprised that items marketed to girls would be rife with pastels. I even get that it’s more about capitalism then sexism. But really, what is it with marketers being so uncreative that they always seem to reach for the old-fashioned gender stereotypes? Is the part of our brain that makes us want to buy stuff on the opposite side of the critical thinking part? I don’t get it.

● Women in Egypt continue being awesome, in what according to the New York Times historians are calling “the biggest women’s demonstration in modern Egyptian history.”  These protests were triggered after soldiers stormed Tahrir Square, stripped a woman of her abaya and revealed her bra. Discussion of the protests requires much more nuance and detail than can be covered in this post, but the gist of it is anger at the military council and its behavior towards dissenters. I don’t know about you but I find the protesters courage really inspiring, and I’ll be following the news closely.

● And you may have seen it already, but frankly looking at current events can be a little depressing, so lets wrap this up with a freaking adorable girl ranting over the ridiculousness of the gender division between boys’ and girls’ toys. Seeing kids learn these lessons so young makes me hopeful for the future.

The Problem with Pop Science


Posted on December 28, 2011 by

Science, despite its efforts to be objective, is easily influenced by social norms and expectations.  As science historian Londa Schiebinger points out in Salon, an excellent example of this is the human egg. Once thought to be a passive drifter awaiting a strong swimmer, it was determined in the 70′s to have microvilli on its surface to grab and catch sperm, becoming its own active force in fertilization.  The microvilli were actually discovered in the 1890′s, but not considered noteworthy until the 1970′s, as noted by Salon writer Margaret Wertheim in the same article, “a time when women’s roles in society were themselves being reconceived.”

I bring this up because pop science – what I consider the interpretation of scientific studies into soundbite worthy articles for news sites – is so often used to make headlines by using a study to present some (alleged) fact about men, women, and/or sex. These facts may conveniently be “politically incorrect,” which is the polite way of saying they reinforce conservative notions of gender or sex roles. Often, the culprit is my arch nemesis: Evolutionary Psychology (but more on that in another article).

Once you’ve noticed this trend, you’ll find it’s everywhere.  Just recently reported in August, a study done at FSU by Roy Baumeister found that “countries with greater gender equality have higher rates of sexual activity.”  According to his research, he found that “with [gender] parity comes a greater likelihood of casual sex and more sexual partners.”  Study number two, done by John Hopkins University and reported by the Huffington Post in September, finds that “dominant women have less sex.” The study was a survey of African women, and as co-author Carie Muntifering put it, “[u]nderstanding how women’s position in the household influences their sexual activity may be an essential piece in protecting the sexual rights of women and helping them achieve a sexual life that is both safe and pleasurable.”

I’m not interested in the fact that these two studies found such different results; they were done by different researchers with different subjects in different countries, after all.  What I find interesting is the conclusions drawn from the information as well as the reporting itself.  In study number one, the author uncovered higher rates of sexual activity. He went on to explain that “when women have more access to educational and financial opportunities, they don’t need to hold sex hostage as much, so they relaxed the controls they’ve put on sexuality.” He goes on to state that sex is used by women as an economic force to attain goals and “get what they want from men.”  The article describes the prevalence of increased casual sexual partners as a “mathematical, emotionless” characteristic.

In study number two, though the study author seemed to indicate that less sexual partners was a positive sign of increased sexual control for the African women, the writers of the article chose to frame it quite differently. They reported that “empowered women…could be losing out on sex” and that “the more decisions made, the less physical intimacy” they experienced, a decidedly negative-sounding side effect.  The important similarity between the two articles is this – both articles placed a negative connotation on women’s sexual freedom. The women who experienced increased sexual activity were mathematical and calculating, the women who experienced decreased sexual activity were missing out.  Looks like women can’t win!

Sometimes it’s not just the journalism you must look at with a skeptical eye, but the study itself.  The University of West Scotland did a study on the way women walk and their history of orgasms – particularly, vaginal orgasms.  16 subjects were analyzed for their gait and their history of orgasm. (I admit the article already lost me here – I’d never put much faith in a study with such a small sample size anyway.) They found that a “trained sexologist” could tell which women had vaginal orgasms based on the longer stride and increased vertebral rotation. They supposed that women who had vaginal orgasms may “feel more confident in their sexuality, which might be reflected in their gait.” They went on to discuss the studies implications for sexual dysfunction therapies. My issue with this? Lack of vaginal orgasm is not sexual dysfunction. The utter lack of discussion on the clitoral orgasm reinforces the long-standing cultural notion that vaginal orgasms are superior to clitoral ones and frankly seems a little insulting towards women who can only have the clitoral kind.

My point isn’t to judge anyone; they’re all looking for a human interest story, and all they have is their cultural mores and values to draw upon.  I just think it’s important to draw attention to how science, no matter how rigorous the method used, is vulnerable to our own cultural perceptions when we try to interpret it.  This has huge implications for what we consider true, as well as where we choose to get our information from. The next time you see a study in the news, pay careful attention to the dissonance between the data and the words used to describe it, and above all – stay skeptical.

Target Women with Sarah Haskins


Posted on November 22, 2011 by

If you haven’t yet seen Target Women with Sarah Haskins, you’re in for a treat. Sarah and her team at Current TV explore the ridiculous, hilarious and often insulting content of pop culture/television advertisements in a collage of clips and clever critiques.

I stopped watching television about five years ago, and now it’s hard to even be around one while it’s on. To me, it’s not the television shows that get me nauseated, it’s the endless barrage of sexist/classist/racist commercials that are cleverly crafted to seep into your brain.

While I enjoy all of Sarah’s episodes, check out this knee-slapper on birth control:

Will this change the way you see advertisements too?

This Week In: Sexism


Posted on November 17, 2011 by

Sexual harassment has been highlighted in the media lately and, though I’m glad awareness seems to be increasing, the messages being put out are not great for women.

 ● Katie Roiphe at the New York Times writes an article dismissing sexual harassment as something too “vague, subjective, slippery” to care about, and says “Show me a smart, competent young professional woman who is utterly derailed by a verbal unwanted sexual advance or an inappropriate comment about her appearance, and I will show you a rare spotted owl.”  I don’t know about you, but when I’ve been sexually harassed I was never derailed but I was hurt, embarrassed, nauseated and angry.  And it was still harassment.

 ● Nonprofit research organization American Association of University Women found in a research study that “nearly half” of 7th to 12th graders out of a representative group of 1,965 students have experienced sexual harassment in the last school year. Girls were more likely than boys to have experienced physical sexual harassment, and female students reported that the harassment that bothered them the most were unwelcome sexual comments.  Boys stated that the harassment that had the “worst effect” on them was being called gay.

 ● J. Bryan Lowder at XXfactor weighed in on the above study and missed the point entirely, referring to the harassment as “youthful mistakes” made out of “adolescent ignorance,” and stating that writing on Facebook that a girl is a “whore” [is not] equivalent to molesting her at a party.” 

Okay, this sounds a lot like the old “don’t you have more important things to worry about?” derail.  The problem here is that when someone finds it necessary to point out that a particular type of harassment is not as severe as other kinds, they – whether they mean to or not – sound dismissive of said harassment.  And this dismissal would be a mistake because it’s not just the level of harassment that we should consider, it’s the cause.  Minor and severe harassment or assault are manifestations of the same internalized cultural beliefs.  Calling a boy gay in a derogatory manner and beating up a gay kid come from the same belief that being gay is wrong.  Grabbing girls in the hallways at school and assaulting them at a party come from the same belief that girls exist as sex objects that don’t deserve bodily autonomy.  And if we dismiss school harassment as youthful immaturity we miss a chance to teach our kids better values before their behavior becomes even more harmful to others.

 ● And in case you missed it, Sady Doyle of the excellent blog Tiger Beatdown recently started a Twitter hashtag called #mencallmethings to illustrate the type of gendered abuse women bloggers receive on the internet.  Trigger warning for lots of sexist comments, rape and assault threats, and foul language.  It’s an interesting window into the types of comments women writers on the internet have to deal with on a regular basis.